Dear Har-old,

Swiss writer Isabelle Holland said, “As long as you don’t forgive, who and whatever it is will occupy rent-free space in your mind.”

Grudges.

The ELEPHANT in the room.

The more peanuts you eat (meaning the more grudges you hold) the bigger the elephant gets, the smaller the room becomes.

Har-old, how can you say, “But I’m not thinking about it, it’s just at the back of my mind?”

IT IS STILL IN YOUR HEAD!!!

Har-old, you ARE the Dumbo!

This ELEPHANT can no longer be ignored.

Har-old, you are a thinker. Great things come out of your mind BUT bad things stay in.

You dwell. Let things linger. Allow things to “hang around.” Just chilling!

They know what gets to you. They freaking know HOW to get to you. They know what sticks.

They’re throwing peanuts at a duct tape brain.

You have to stop eating those salty peanuts. Stop with the grudges, man. Not healthy.

Because it is comical to them how personally you take things. Reverse this.

I will tell you something these idiots don’t know: Contrary to popular belief, peanuts are NOT a elephant’s favorite food.

So … this will be EASY.

Remember: You are in complete control of your reaction.

You want to know how to forget? Stay busy. Stay working. Stay occupied. Stay doing … something!

You have time to dwell because you have time to over-think.

Trust me. When they see your new boredom with peanuts and you’re no longer feeding off them, they WILL anger.

Then they will start throwing peanuts at you.

Hahahaha!

I guess these idiots also didn’t know elephants have thick-skin.

Futuristically yours,

Har+new